I am going to start filtering some of my more private musings. Since blogger does not have a tool for that, you will need to visit my Live Journal and ask to be friended there. I will continue to post Daily Gratitude and other subjects here. There is also a FAQ for my Journal at the same link.
| Sunday, April 28, 2002 @ 00:34 For those who were confused by the list of sex acts in the last entry, let me clarify: I am not a virgin in all of them, just a good many. The wording was a bit confusing. I was saying that all these things have a virginity, so when someone asks me if I'm a virgin, I usually say "in many ways, but which do you mean?" The question was also raised regarding consensual virginity. If you are raped (penetrative sex) have you lost that virginity? If you were sexually abused as a child (which might involve many of the various acts on the list) or in an manipulative relationship as an adult where you were forced to certain acts, are you a virgin? If you add non-consensual acts, my remaining virginity drops. Then there's directional virginity (ordering a submissive to perform acts while you observe) and cyber and phone(if people can get paid for this type of sex, then it counts as sex!) and, of course, the always popular self-sex (creative self-sex is going to involve a lot more than simple masterbation). I've had experiences in all those areas that aren't covered in the list I generated. So, like I said: I'm a virgin in some ways, but that doesn't mean I have no sex life. As Darby said, it means I have a lot of fun stuff ahead of me! oh, and j was telling me that she heard if you go seven years without sex, your virginity is restored. so how many restored virgins are there in the various acts? And why the hell do we care so much about the issue in the first place??
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