I am going to start filtering some of my more private musings. Since blogger does not have a tool for that, you will need to visit my Live Journal and ask to be friended there. I will continue to post Daily Gratitude and other subjects here. There is also a FAQ for my Journal at the same link.
| Friday, March 28, 2003 @ 20:33 I received an e-mail from a friend early this week asking if I was okay. I hadn't posted on any of my blogs or my personal list in weeks, so she wondered. Of course, I didn't see the e-mail until two or three days after she sent it (I just didn't have time to check that particular account). And then we went three days without turning the computer on at all. And the few times I've been on to check e-mail, I've read, but not responded. My boi and I are in an intense bonding phase. It's probably stronger than the one when we first got together. We are now in our own home. No roommate. No intrusive foot traffic. No icky concrete aura surrounding us. No horrible jobs bringing down our energy. We've had some very rough spots and our energy has gone to working through that -- not to talking about it with others or writing it in public forums. We had our first party and it took several weekends of shopping and planning to pull off, leaving little time for computer antics. Physically, we've both had issues since before we moved. People always warned me that finding a partner would mean less time for my online life, but I know I was winding that down even before the boi moved in with me. People also warned me that daily life would interfere with SM and sex. It does, but not as much. We sacrifice our computer time before we sacrifice that. Yes, I love my friends and it's hard going so long without seeing them or talking to them. And I do have a sense that there are things to be accomplished on the worldwide web. However, the tower of memory and processor and bytes is far from a priority when I have this life and this wonderous connection and we are shoring up for the hard times to come, as well as building for the exciting adventures we plan to create. Life is very good.
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